There once was a time when feminist activists tried to make the courts respond to domestic violence the way they respond to violence between strangers. This was a very good impulse, both morally and rationally, and also in terms of making our justice system operate equitably (in the “equal,” not “social justice” sense of the term “equitable”).
You shouldn’t serve less time for stabbing someone just because she is your wife or was once your wife. Or your husband. ...